Flirting, when crosses the line, destroys relationships. And
when another woman tries the same with your man, you should get
alerted before things go out of your hands. You know your guy
loves you and is loyal to you but you even know how people can
become when it comes to something they want, so be ready. You
alone can take control of this situation.
Do these to take control when another woman is flirting with
1. Talk to your man about it
If you seriously feel that the flirting between him and another
woman is getting out of hands, talk to him. Be bold and ask
what’s going on. Try not to fight as it won’t get you any
solution. Sit in front of him, be as clear as you can and ask
him to explain everything.
2. Check if he is reciprocating or not
This is very important. Before making any accusation, try to
find out if your boyfriend is doing the same with that another
woman. You might even want to find out that did he try to stop
her from flirting with him. This way you’ll get to know if your
man is guilty or not and then you can think of some solution.
3. Let the woman know he belongs to you
If that another woman starts flirting with your man right in
front of you, show her who is the boss. Kiss, hug, flirt, d
anything, let her know that she is messing with the guy who is
4. Never ignore when someone else tries to flirt with
Flirting to some extent is considered healthy, that’s something
you can overlook. When it crosses the line, do not ignore. You
love your man and he loves you back, true. But do not let this
flirting thing get out of hand. Stop it before things get
5. Do not let it get on your nerves
It may happen that your man is too loyal to you that he hardly
notices another woman flirting with him. If this is the case,
then you too, ignore the whole matter. Believe in him and keep
working on your relationship.
6. Let him know that you trust him
When you’ll let your man know that you trust him, he’ll try
hard to keep up to your trust. Despite other woman flirting
with him, he will still be yours.
7. Avoid the jealousy game
Women at times try to flirt with some other guy to make their
man jealous thinking he’ll pay more attention to you and not
the other woman. Take note, never ever do this. If you try the
same, your boyfriend will feel dejected and that’ll make the
whole matter worse.
8. Never over analyse the matter
Despite the absence of any kind of flirting, possessiveness
will let you believe there is. Try not to do this. Analyze the
situation and then decide what exactly you want.
9. Understand him and the way you feel
Insecurity is that cancer which destroys every relationship.
Never let it cloud your feelings for him or the fact that he
belongs to you. If even a simple conversation between him and
another woman makes you feel uncomfortable, try to find out why
and the solution to it.
10. Never believe in rumors
If someone comes and tell you that your guy letting another
woman flirt with him, do not believe or react without any solid
proof. Otherwise, you’ll end up losing him.
11. Keep him yours
A guy only gets attracted to some other woman when he feels
that you are not the one for him or if things go bad between
you two. Do not let this happen if you love him. Keep him
yours, let him know that the girl he is with is perfect for
12. Talk to the other woman
Yes, this is something very important. Go for a dinner with her
and casually ask her to stop whatever funny business she is