A very familiar phrase that you must have come across “If you
happened to fall in love the second time, it wasn’t actually
Love the first time” Very true indeed! Isn’t it? It takes a lot
of guts to fall in love for the second
time because, generally, majority of people do not
have very good experience from the first love. And once you do,
you make sure it lasts forever. You get attached to that person
more than you were ever with anyone. Second love holds a
special place. It heals you and makes you feel better.
Let’s know why second love is way better than the first love.
Second love heals a lot! It heals to an extent where you are
compelled to fall in love all over again. Humans are attracted
to people who love them and care for them ( well, so are
animals!) It has got that power to heal and makes you better.
It gives you strength! The post break up part, where you keep
lamenting, it’s the love who gives you strength to move on. A
very unconditional support!
Since you have faced a heartbreaking experience in your first
relationship, the intensity of love in the second one will be
way more! Trust establishes and you are likely to be crazy
about each other in a positive way.
Second love is a secured one. You know you are not just fooling
around but pretty serious about the future. Hence there is a
constant feeling of security because you’re like you’ve
had enough for the first time.
Experience makes a man perfect! Once you are experienced in
something, you automatically get good at it. So consider the
first love as a trial, with second love your understanding gets
Second love is mostly pampered and so it’s better than the
first love. You both are so much into each other that pampering
becomes a normal thing.
Now that you know where an argument would lead, you’ll be aware
of what you speak and what could hurt the other person.
You are more committed to your second love because there
is a fear deep inside that you might lose them! So, second love
is way better!
Your second love knows how to tackle you in different
circumstances. Faith makes second love even more stronger and
Even if it ends at some point of time, you’ll notice it
lasted long enough!Via
While reading all these points, if you were thinking that what
if it’s the third love! Then you probably need a Love Doctor!
All the best.