Sexting is when you exchange sexual text messages or sometimes
even photos with another person. Sexting is something a lot of
people do these days. If you are new to this, you better learn
some skills before it goes horribly wrong.Because when it goes
wrong, it can be a big turn off, sometimes embarrassing also.
Sexting rules can turn out to be your life saver when in long
distance relationships, they keep it going and pretty much keep
the relationship alive.
Here are some life saver sexting rules to make your
sexting experiences optimal.
Test before you sext; be 100% sure that the person you are
sexting, would reciprocate with the same level enthusiasm. You
would want to know whether the person is interested and is
comfortable with engaging in sexual activity. You don’t want to
make a fool out of yourself.
Start with a little bit of light flirting, keep it casual. If
the person reacts in a flirtatious way, you can intensify your
flirting and start sexting gradually. Flirting should be your
base for sexting. Remember, after getting the green signal, do
not sext immediately. Keep your flirting strong while you start
slipping in your sexts slowly.
One thing that can ruin your sexting is that badass
“autocorrect”. Try to contain your excitement, read your sext
before you hit enter. You don’t want your, “I want to f*ck you”
to come out as, “I want to duck you”. It is very important to
read your sext first rather than regret later. Follow the rules
because they are you life saver.
Just like autocorrect, grammar is very important. You should
know the difference between ‘your’ and ‘you’re’, ‘then’ and
‘than’. If the person turns out to be a grammar nazi, it’s
going to be even more worse. Because whatever the person reads
is what they are going to hear in their head. Take you time in
sending your sext. Always follow the life saver rules!
Now that you know how to sext, you would want to up your level.
And that is sexting with photos! You may know how to send
decent sexts, decent and sext don’t go together, but anyway,
sending photos while sexting is where the danger zone actually
begins. But there is nothing to freak out! You always learn.
Do not, never, ever, send out nude pictures unsolicited. No
body wants to wake up in the morning and find out that a d*ck
pic is waiting to greet them! That’s so messed up. If the
person is not yet ready for sexting with photos, and you send
them one, there are high chances of you getting blocked.
And when it’s the other way around, let’s say that you want the
person with whom you’re sexting to send you nudes, don’t push
it. Do not beg for pictures or use phrases like, “please, come
one, just one picture”. You’ll come across as a desperate.
Never lose your dignity. In some cases, when the other person
is a girl, she’ll play with you. Girls like it when you beg for
things, it makes them feel superior and you won’t be getting
nudes anytime soon. So just relax a little bit. If they want to
give it to you, they will eventually.
This one is really important, specially for women. Once you
sent your nude into your sext, you have no control over it,
it’s out of your hands now. There are very high chances it will
be seen by somebody else also. So always follow the rule, “no
faces”. Even if your partner is dead serious about you but has
interfering friends, chances are that there might be more than
one person satisfying himself while looking at your picture.
And if your partner turns out to be an asshole, he may make an
MMS with those nudes and upload them, make them viral. Anything
could go wrong. It’s not worth the risk. And now you know what
is your life saver!
Try not using very common pick up lines. Make your own pick up
line. Be more descriptive and creative. Do not let vocabulary
be a limitation. Use a Thesaurus if you fall short for words.
Follow sexting rules.
Ever heard of ‘Drunk dialled an Ex’! Obviously you have, and
that’s cute sometimes but not when in comes to sexting. Getting
a bit tipsy is fine, it adds intensity to your sext. But
getting drunk to an extent where you can’t even pee straight
and sexting is a big “NO”. Being uninhibited is a good thing,
but not to the extent of embarrassment. So basically, alcohol
and sexting is a bad idea!.
Always sext the person you are supposed to sext. Over
excitement can be fatal! Before you even realize you made a
blunder, you’ve already sent a picture of your d*ck to you
mother! She’s already got a mini heart attack and at the same
time is wondering that her son has indeed “grown up” or “grown
big”! Even worse if you send nudes to a group and you’d want to
kill yourself if it was a family group.
Patience is the key, if you did not get sexted today, you will
some other day, just lay off and have faith. Talk dirty and
never stop learning.